Writer's Block: Let's stay friends

[synnoveaevael]

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I stay on good terms. I am a freak of nature.

I haven't had many boyfriends though.

Alan, my first. 2.5 years. He's more like a brother now. An annoying, "I do everything wrong" brother. He's a good kid.

JD, my second. 10 mos officially (almost year and a half unofficially, my shortest relationship to date either way) We had the messiest break up I've ever gone through. It was just drama drama drama. But I got over it. His sister is a very good friend of mine, and he's still with the chica that I broke up with him for (that sounds so weird, I can't find a wording that sounds right). So clearly it all worked out. Oddly I had a dream with her in it last night.*

Jim, my third. 3.5 years. I thought this was it, we'd gotten engaged and everything. But shortly after we got engaged, strange things were happening. And I was getting more and more miserable. He couldn't have been happy either. I still am not 100% sure what the hell happened. But, he's a wonderful person, and the break up clearly wasn't messy. I am pleased about that cause how AWKWARD would that shit be. I mean, we have the same group of friends, it's how we met. Heh.

Now I'm with Andrew. So far, we've been together officially a year and a half. We live together too. If I hadn't lost my job, I don't know if we'd have stayed together since we lived so far apart, he's not too great on the communication over text/IM thing and I hate the phone. But I guess all that worked out for a reason.



*So in the dream last night that she was sitting on a couch with my friends, except her whole head was dyed purple (she does dye her hair, not a huge stretch) and just kinda hanging out as I showed people a custom book, that strangely had Moose's profile in it. Oh, and Danni cut her dreads off and had a cute short blond hair cut and I cried, and Victoria & I went for a drive. But! I forgot my laptop. So we turned around and drove over the grass in my unknown apartment complex to get it. Then I woke up. HAHA.

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[bfuldisaster.livejournal.com]

I'm pretty far on the outskirts of the group, but I recall hearing recently JD and girl have split. I cannot confirm it though.

[synnoveaevael.livejournal.com]

really? last i heard they were fine, but not living together. i did hear recently that his mom took his puppy down to her house (in north carolina) so she could have more space to run around and have a friend in their dog. sadness :( i would not want to give up my kittie.